HUMAN RIGHTS WATCH
Daughter Hopes to Still Find Missing Parents
The pain of the forced disappearance of her parents is still fresh but she
manages to be strong for her brother. This Christmas will be a sad and
hard one for Malaya Intise and her brother Bayan, but she still has hope
that she will find their parents soon.
BY ZOFIA LEAL
Bulatlat
The pain of the
forced disappearance of her parents is still fresh but she manages to be
strong for her brother. This Christmas will be a sad and hard one for
Malaya and her brother Bayan, but she still has hope that she will find
their parents soon.
Nelly and Federico
Intise, the parents of Malaya Intise, have been missing since Oct. 26,
together with Gloria Cañaveral. They were last seen at Puting Bato, Brgy.
Calumpan, General Santos City.
Malaya narrates that
during the 1980s, her parents had already been detained and tortured
together with Bayan, who was three years old at that time. Bayan served as
the eyes of their mother during their detention in a safe house. Bayan
narrated to Malaya how he too was beaten and kicked – an experience he now
remembers more vividly due to the disappearance of their parents.
Nelly is a
non-government organization (NGO) worker while Federico is a farmer. Last
Oct. 19, Nelly visited her husband at the farm. On Oct. 24, Nelly texted
Malaya that she would be home by Oct. 26. However, days passed and Nelly
was not able to come home, causing Malaya to worry.
Malaya was informed
about the disappearance of their parents last Nov. 11, 15 days after the
abduction. Their initial reaction was disbelief because they knew no
reason their parents would be abducted. It was only then that they found
out that their father is a staff member of the National Democratic Front
of the Philippines (NDFP). They immediately suspected the military to be
behind their parents’ disappearance.
The nature of work or
political background of her father notwithstanding, Malaya could still not
understand why the military had to take their parents. She noted that
forced disappearances have really become a trend since Gloria Macapagal-Arroyo
became president.
Malaya hopes the
government will give due process even though her father is an NDFP staff
member. The military can file a case against her father if they want to
and that the forced disappearance is unjustifiable, she said.
Malaya and other
friends and family members have already filed their case at the Commission
on Higher Education (CHEd) and Philippine National Police at General
Santos City but the results are always negative, she said. They filed a
blotter at the police precinct that has jurisdiction over Putting Bato and
they have even asked around the place, but still they do not have any clue
as to where their parents are.
Malaya is concerned
about her brother, Bayan, because he has not shown any sign of anger or
sadness. While Malaya cries constantly and even shouts, Bayan has remained
quiet and turned to painting to possibly release his anger. He often
paints pictures of their mother’s favorite flower.
This Dec. 10 will be
the 22nd birthday of her brother. She constantly texts her
brother to check on him and his whereabouts. She also fears that her
brother might be abducted too and she cannot bear the thought of anything
happening to him.
Life for them goes on
though, however painful or hard it is for them. Bayan still goes to school
while Malaya is now in Manila to pursue a lead that their parents are
there.
In Manila, she got to
know people like her with loved ones believed to have been abducted by the
military. She often wonders what is worse, to lose a parent or to lose a
child. In their case, both their parents are missing. Malaya copes by
thinking that at least, their parents are together.
Malaya narrated how
her mother had no stable job but was nonetheless able to send her and her
brother to school by catering and cleaning offices. Bayan even had to stop
schooling for a while because their parents’ income could not send them
both to school at the same time. Their parents raised them well, she says,
and they grew up in a simple lifestyle.
Malaya has worked for
a local NGO in Davao since graduating from college, and has been able to
help in addressing their family’s financial concerns Recently, she was
working at another NGO in Cotabato City, and this was when she received
news of her parents’ disappearance.
Federico has malaria
and just this September, Nelly was diagnosed as having heart problems. Her
parents’ ailments cause Malaya to worry more.
Right now, she really
just wants to see her parents. She always thinks of where they are and how
they are doing.
She remembers her
parents as never having had any fights. Although her parents may have had
misunderstandings at time, her father would just remain smiling. Malaya
and her brother never feared that their parents would separate because
they know how much their parents love each other. At times they would see
their parents exchanging “love taka” (“I love you” in Visayan) text
messages.
Federico farms at
Alabel, which is three hours away from Davao. Even though their parents
are away from each other, Malaya and Bayan are secure that their parents’
commitment to each other is strong.
Myra Gazo Macla,
Nelly’s best friend, remembers her as a jolly person. She is considered as
the life of the group and that she does not want anyone sad, Myra said.
Myra and Nelly met
through Selda (Society of Ex-Detainees for Liberation against Detention
and for Amnesty). Since then, they have been the best of friends. Myra was
the first person that Malaya contacted since they heard news of the
disappearance of their parents. Myra is accompanying Malaya in Manila.
Nelly is like a
sister to her and whenever there are family gatherings, Nelly would always
be invited, Myra said.
As a source of
strength, Malaya turns to prayer and to the support of her parents’
friends and co-workers.
When she was still in
school, Malaya volunteered at a youth camp that helps out-of-school youth.
Their youth camp was raided by the military and they were accused of being
New People’s Army (NPA) members. They filed a case against the police but
later found out that the head of the team that raided their camp had
already gone to Manila to supposedly take his master’s degree.
Malaya has no doubts
that their parents were abducted by the military. She just hopes that it
wouldn’t take them long to release their parents. So far, every detachment
or office that they have turned to had told them that their case would be
investigated.
Right now, Malaya
just wishes that the military will release her parents or even just give
them information as to how their parents are. As for Myra, she wants to
see her friends –whether they are still alive or already dead. Bulatlat
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